Why Saying “You Got the Kids. That’s the Most Important Thing”, Doesn’t Work.

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Every day, when people ask me about how things are going with the eternal divorce, they tell me (when stunned by the fact that I got absolutely nothing in my hands from the courts):

At least you got the kids. That’s what really matters.

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Exploring my relationship with myself, others and the gods of my childhood. Its all up for grabs. Feeling my way forward everyday.

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Exploring my relationship with myself, others and the gods of my childhood. Its all up for grabs. Feeling my way forward everyday.

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